I can remember so vividly how very sad I was after having each of my babies.
I didn’t understand why I felt unhappy and why I couldn’t stop crying.
With my first baby, the feelings of sadness came almost immediately. With my second though, I felt the opposite. When I had her I spent the first couple of days in a complete euphoria and I thought maybe this time I had beat the baby blues. It didn’t take long though, for that feeling to die off and for the sadness to show up.
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I can tell you that it will get better and hopefully, that will happen quickly. For others, it may take quite a while. You can help though, even if you think you can’t. There are a few extremely important things you can be doing for your wife to help her through this.
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1. Get her some sleep. She’s going to fight you on this and will not want to let go of that sweet new baby to let you help out. She will probably win the battle most times, but keep encouraging her. Do whatever you can do make her feel comfortable enough to leave you with the baby while she sleeps. Getting a solid rest will help her new mom fog clear a bit. One good idea is to invite a relative she trusts to come help you with your baby duty.
2. Be kind. There’s never a time to not be kind to your spouse, but this is the time where you need to be the nicest person you’ve ever been. Hug her, wipe her tears, tell her over and over again how wonderful she is and how what she is going through is normal and will get better. She needs an extreme dose of kindness and patience from you. Everything is making her cry at the moment, so don’t give her any extra reason to be upset.
3. Don’t Judge Her. Do not for a second let her think that you are questioning her sanity. She knows she’s acting completely different than her normal self, so please don’t need to remind her. If you have questions about what is going on or need to vent, find a friend, family member or a counselor you can talk to.
4. Don’t Take It Personal. Even though you are being kind and keeping your judgements to yourself, she’s going to find a reason to upset or angry with you. Most times she won’t even really know why. Please remind yourself that it really has nothing to do with you and soon enough she will transform back into the women you love.
5. Seek Help If It’s Needed. If these feelings continue without getting better or you are concerned with anyone’s safety, get help. Many times this is something she goes through during the first few weeks after having a baby and slowly will subside as her hormones settle down. If that’s not the case for you, encourage her to get help.
Sooner or later it will get better but in the moment it will seem impossible to overcome. Hang in there, she will be happy again soon.
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This is such an important subject, and we don’t talk about it enough in our country. I would really encourage men (or partners) to understand that postpartum depression can be life-threatening and they shouldn’t waste one moment facing it head on and getting Momma to see a doctor. Thank you for writing this post!
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How long does the postpartum depression usually last for?
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It varies wildly. So does the severity. Please don’t panic if she confesses to thoughts that are extreme, it does not make her dangerous. Mine was about a year with our 1st, and about 18months(maybe longer) with our 2nd. Medication can make a huge difference, so can counselling, and sleep! Feeling that way is exhausting and so is wearing the masks to get through the day.
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I also found that the one who I birthed alone was more marked, unless she demands it, do not let a woman be alone for that! (not my husband’s fault).
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Love this post. I have the sweetest husband ever who has been doing all of the above.
I just actually wrote a post about my experience so far today – http://muchadoaboutsomethin.blogspot.com/2015/03/my-battle-with-postpartum-depression.html
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